The 6 stages of the Romantic Chase Theory, it’s what us humans live for right? It’s the spice in our lives. The courting, the fulfillment of egos [ I made him/her happy, so I’m happy], The assurance, The tendency of loving the chase, The plan of keeping her/him and lastly, the realization.
But that’s not the type of chase I’m talking about. I’m talking about the 6 stages of The Romantic Chase theory for your Passion.
1. The Courting [ of the idea of what you want to fulfill.]
Nobody wants to turn 80 and realize that you’ve done nothing about your dreams but work at a 9-5 full time, hating your guts, your boss and your life.. Or at least I don’t.
2. The Fulfillment of egos.
Who you want to become proud of you and your achievements speaks volumes in itself of what you want in life, because at the end of the day, your passion comes second if you’re trying to do it for others. It’s super simple. When you’re happy and when you’re happy doing what you love, you make everyone proud. At least ones that matter. This includes yourself. This is the only thing that matters.
3. The assurance.
I’ve always been a firm believer in self potential. Everyone can excel in anything. But we don’t just want to live to excel. We want to soar. We want to leave trademarks. We want to create impressions that awaken the same drive in others’ that may have not had the courage to start until they’ve seen us. In order for us to soar, there in nothing a better force and drive than that of your passion’s.
4. The love in the chase.
When you love what you do, there are no limits to what you can’t do. You are your own, therefore you end up flying. And with flying comes rewards you never imagined could happen to you, so then that becomes your assurance which fuels you to keep keeping on. No 9-5 Job will ever make you feel as alive as you passion.
5. The keeping.
Like relationships, you weight the good and bad before you truly know if it will work out, if you do choose to keep it. When you chase a dream, you learn about yourself, you learn your capabilities and limitations, and the value of hard work and persistence. This will weight heavier than any hardship you will encounter. This is what will make you overcome it and keep you going. This is what makes you decide to keep it.
6. The realization.
No explanation needed, I’m certain you’ve realized things already.
Much love to you all. Go after what you’ve been dreaming of.
xx
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Photography by Denisse Benitez