Dear class of 2014, No it’s not your parents. No it’s not a good paying career not is it a $150,000 college degree. It’s that little voice in the back of your head telling you to go for that corner coffee store dream you’ve been dreaming to own. It’s that desire to be the next Steve Jobs creating the next big thing. It’s called Passion. Everyone has it. Chase that and not the dollar signs. The Dollar signs come afterwards I promise. This is a bad advice. Now that graduation is done, your 4 years of undergrad is over. Now what? Don’t get me wrong I am huge at following my passions. However, that thought simply matured into a reality. So let this not discourage you. Read on. First, do you really know what your passion is? A lot of people don’t, and it set them back seven months. We assume that we really know what our passions are upfront. Can you tell me just by thinking about it? The way it really works is that you have to get good at something, then you become passionate about it. I’ve asked a few people who love what they do for a living, I found that in most cases their passion developed slowly, often over unexpected and complicated paths. It’s rare, for example, to find someone who loves their career before they’ve become very good at it — expertise generates many different engaging traits, such as respect, impact, autonomy — and the process of becoming good can be frustrating and take years. Second, it may not be realistic to follow your passion. We tend to not consider the barriers. Like, what if your passion won’t pay? Or what if you don’t actually want to turn your hobby or passion into a full-time career? Or what if your passion leads you down a road that means you’ll actually make less of an impact? Two reasons people keep trying to follow their passion There are a couple of reasons people still think following a passion is the golden career ticket, even when it’s getting them nowhere. One reason is that we hear this advice everywhere! We’re told this is the way that people succeed. “Just follow your passion and the dollars will follow, I said. But here’s the real truth : Our culture celebrates dreamers who stick with it and overcome all odds. But that’s…
Read More“Get Naked. Get Dirty. Get Rough. Get Clean.”
He arrived in my front door this morning and waited for me all day at home while I was busy at work. Hurrying home, all I could think of was him all over me , on top of me – invigorating, smoothening and cleansing! Yes guys meet: Frank Coffee Scrub. Frank doesn’t mess around. At the end of my shower, I covered myself in the stuff and scrubbed. You scrub all over, concentrating on any dry spots, stretch marks, imperfections etc. Now, be forewarned. Frank is messy. A bit of a nightmare if you are a clean freak. He is dark brown, smells like coffee and leaves coffee grits all over the shower. And then, for best results, you are supposed to stand around naked while it works further magic and dries. Then, you get back in the shower and rinse it off. Standing in the shower naked for ten minutes sounded kind of awful so I brushed my teeth, did some merchandising analysis, and did some folding in my closet . Naked, covered in the scrub. I looked pretty terrifying. These are the benefits of living alone, friends. But when I rinsed off, my skin did feel just like silk. I’m hooked. Frank is beautiful, Frank cares for me and thousands around the world love Frank. Frank Bod is a coffee scrub that is filled with vitamins and oils, developed to target cellulite, stretch marks, smooth lumps and bumps, moisturizes and improves skin tone. Frank is the Sinatra of scrubs. The Clooney of Coffee. Irresistible and aaaall the ladies want him for their own. Cheeky and naughty just the way I like! Might be time to take Frankie boy home with you. Amazing would be an understatement for our first date. If he keeps up the dirty behavior, I foresee a long term relationship. Grab a date night with Frank ASAP at www.frankbody.com. Frank’s hometown is Melbourne, Australia but he travels worldwide to be with his babes. xo,JG
Read MoreAccidentally Sexy
After one too many mornings where I would wake up to a 1970s Acme Fright Wig stuck to the top of my head, I chopped my hair off. As much as I would love to say “it’s just a haircut,” that would kinda be a lie. If you cut your hair to a chin length, there is a part of you making a statement. There’s something about it that seems fearless and bold. The shorter you go, the bigger the statement. You’re going against traditional stereotypes of what it means to be sexy and there’s a little hint of taboo appeal to it. I have had shorter hair in the past – shaved the back of my head and whatnot but after years of the no hair game, I have decided to grow it past my derriere, as the French would put it. Although my fashionable friends would keep telling me to cut my hair off again, I always put it off. If I’m being honest, I was afraid. Especially because I have created my “look” for the modeling agencies. A look that is versatile enough only given by long hair. I was afraid that I would look like a man in my shoots, I was afraid my photos would look different and the brands/ photographers I work with wouldn’t be too happy with it ; that no one would find me attractive and that I wouldn’t be able to do anything with it. And then one day I chopped it all off at work. Yep, I chopped my hair at work. Having had the asymmetrical bob a few months ago, I always was too scared to cut the front shorter but this time I went for an all time short – the shortest I’ve gone since I was 6 years old when mama Grey used to chop poor Jeanne’s hair. Surprisingly enough I’ve never felt more revived, more refreshed and beautiful. I was inspired enough to ask my followers about why they love their short cuts. Here’s what they said: “Low maintenance , very chic. In a way, it shows a lot of courage since it is very seldom for a female to cute her hair off. Bad ass. ” -Nikki @nicolettekezia ” I was super scared at first but now I have never loved my hair more. No risk, no fun.” -Stefanie @nhitastisch “It is so freeing and easy…
Read MoreJ + Boyfriend Jeans
Jeans- these days we find ourselves wearing them tight and skinny. However, there is a fashion-forward alternative that makes you feel just as comfortable as you are in your favorite pair of sweats: the boyfriend jean. Introducing one of Evolve Clothing’s new pieces and incredibly comfortable, ready to wear with whatever: The Boyfriend Jeans. Think of that comfortable pair of too-big jeans you stole from your boyfriend, but fitted for a female body. The jeans are a medium wash, which I paired with their black satin scoop neck crop top from YA Los Angeles clothing. To create a more tomboy feel less dressy ‘fit, I paired it up with my Jays. The structure is much like a pair of men’s jeans, but it is more structured at the waist. The leg opening is less baggy as well, just a tad tapered in order to be tailored to the curvier shape of a woman. The jeans are perfect for spring, as they look best pin rolled. The boyfriend jean is a popular bottom that can be seen on runways and retailers alike. The loose yet feminine feel of the jean allows them to be combined with a myriad of tops. Depending on which shirt you choose, you can transform your look from sporty to girly, from dressed up to dressed down. If you’ve been following me before, you’ll know that I hardly ever wear heels, or follow fads. I love comfort. I used to be all about discomfort for fashion but I found other ways to stay fashionable and stay comfortable as well * grandma stat. I enjoy being in gladiators or Nikes. I hate complicated. I hate thinking. I wash my face, forget to do my hair, pull out a white shirt and leggings or loose jeans and go. Primmed and well put together is out the door. Undone and raw is what’s in. Try it out. [Jeanne] wears Satin scoop neck crop top from YA Los Angeles via Evolve Clothing Gallery ; Boyfriend Jeans in 24’s Evolve Clothing Gallery, shoes by Nike Jordans Thanks Evolve Clothing Gallery for these amazing boyfriend jeans! xo,JG
Read MoreThe sweater side
The title of this post comes from this obsessed-with song ~ and yes, this is most definitely my favorite sweater these days. worn with my these white high waisted skinnies , and my all time favorite purse. Basically, i’ve had this total combination on repeat a lot lately. Decided to stay at the Upper East side throughout the day and visit the Guggenheim since it’s too sad that I live around the area and I’ve never been yet. The art was beautiful but typical. What astounded me more was it’s architecture and structure. Then decided to stop by the Jackie O reservoir in central park! [Jeanne] wears oversized crewneck sweater from silence and noise via Urban Outfitters; White high waisted skinnies by Uniqlo, shoes by Keds, purse by Townhouse Shops Thanks for the photos Jay! xo,JG
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